爱情的救赎结婚以后遇到心动的人怎么办？

　　柯林斯说：亲爱的海伦，你还好吗？我今天一切都很好，你在忙什么呢？
　　Collins said, Dear Helen, are you all right? I＂m fine today. What are you busy with?
　　海伦说：我在看书学习，一会儿准备休息。
　　Helen said, ＂I＂m reading and studying, and I＂ll be ready for a rest later.＂.
　　柯林斯说：今天很美好，我很高兴，因为我遇到了你，我从此多了一个家人。我只希望我们永远珍惜彼此，我想要一个家庭，不论大小，能够彼此陪伴支持，我就很开心。
　　Collins said: Today is very beautiful, I am very happy, because I met you, I have one more family ever since. I just hope that we will cherish each other forever. I want a family, no matter how big or small, to accompany and support each other. I am very happy.
　　海伦说：我生命中遇到你我也好开心，如果我存在能够带给你快乐，我内心也是喜乐的，你会梦想成真的，希望有一天你遇到一个能够跟你彼此相爱之人，组建一个家庭，上帝总会眷顾善良的人，在我能力范围内，我都会尽我所能给予你支持和帮助，只要你是幸福的就好！
　　Helen said: I am so happy to meet you in my life. If my existence can bring you happiness, my heart is also joyful. Your dream will come true. I hope that one day you will meet someone who can love each other with you. , To build a family, God will always take care of kind people. Within the scope of my ability, I will do my best to support and help you, as long as you are happy!
　　柯林斯说：能够拥有你就是一种幸福，我知道你会一直在我身边， 我保证我会好好照顾你，我很想看到你，如果可以，我很想看看你照片？你几点休息！这是我！
　　Collins said: Being able to have you is a kind of happiness. I know you will always be by my side. I promise I will take good care of you. I would love to see you. If I can, I would love to see your photos? What time do you rest! this is me!
　　海伦说：你看起来很阳光，穿衣服很精神，并且笑起来很温暖，我十一点休息，你今天工作应该很累吧，记得早点睡！
　　Helen said: ＂You look very sunny, dressed very energetic, and smile very warm, I rest at eleven o＂clock, you work today should be very tired, remember to go to bed early!＂!
　　柯林斯说：你看起来很美丽很神奇的。
　　Collins said, ＂You look beautiful and wonderful.＂.
　　海伦说：我今天在地里干活，这里是田园生活，我其实很普通，这是美颜相机拍出来的，我其实没那么好看，只是我平时比较爱笑而已。
　　Helen said: I am working in the field today. This is a rural life. I am actually very ordinary. This is taken by a beauty camera. I am actually not that good-looking, but I usually laugh more.
　　柯林斯说：我吃过饭，一个人听音乐散步。
　　Collins said, ＂I have eaten, listened to music, and walked alone.＂.
　　海伦说：柯林斯看起来很年轻，感觉二十多的人，你很适合戴鸭舌帽，看起来很有活力的。散步有益于身体健康，我很喜欢有空出去走走，可以跟你现在一样戴个蓝牙耳机，一边走路一边想很多人和事，觉得很美好，这是一个很美好的夜晚，我们两个有些生活场景很相似的。
　　Helen said: Collins looks very young and feels like more than twenty people. You are very suitable to wear a peaked cap and look very energetic. Walking is good for your health. I like to go for a walk when I have time. I can wear a Bluetooth headset like you do now. I think about many people and things while walking. It’s beautiful. It’s a beautiful night. We have some The life scene is very similar.
　　柯林斯说：是的，帽子让我看起来很年轻，告诉我，海伦，你心里想什么，我愿意尽我所能帮你消除内心的痛苦，带给你快乐，因为我很喜欢你，也崇拜你。你是如此的甜蜜和美好，就如同蜂蜜和香料一样，我希望你幸福平安。
　　Collins said: Yes, the hat makes me look young. Tell me, Helen, what is in your heart, I am willing to do my best to help you eliminate the pain in your heart and bring you happiness, because I like you very much and admire you. You are so sweet and beautiful, just like honey and spices, I wish you happiness and peace.
　　海伦说：那是你内心很美好，所以你才可以看到很多美好，心美一切皆成美好，所以我们要以欢喜心过生活。
　　Helen said, that is because your heart is very beautiful, so you can see a lot of beauty, heart beauty, everything is beautiful, so we have to live with joy.
　　柯林斯说：你是甜蜜的，你也是最好的，即使在我难过的时候，你也可以让我微笑，我把你当成我内心最亲近之人，我最好的朋友！
　　Collins said: ＂You are sweet, you are also the best, even when I am sad, you can also make me smile, I put you as my heart the closest person, my best friend!＂!
　　海伦说：如果我给你爱，能够让你永远保持微笑拥有幸福，我愿意为你这么做，如果这刚好是你需要的话。
　　Helen said, ＂If I could give you love and make you smile and be happy forever, I would do it for you, if it was just what you needed.＂.
　　柯林斯说：我希望我们可以成为一家人，我们亲如兄妹，也仿佛彼此是最好的朋友。
　　Collins said: ＂I hope we can become a family, we are close as brother and sister, but also as each other＂s best friends.＂.
　　海伦说：如果我的存在让你觉得很幸福，我愿意成为你最好的朋友，也是你在中国最亲的家人。
　　Helen said: ＂If my presence makes you feel very happy, I would like to be your best friend, but also your closest family in China.＂.
　　柯林斯说：亲爱的海伦，我远方的家人，愿快乐常伴你左右，我喜欢你快乐的样子，我喜欢微笑着的那个你。
　　Collins said: ＂Dear Helen, my distant family, may happiness always be around you, I like your happy look, I like the smile of that you.＂.
　　海伦说：那就让我笑容陪你，当你不开心的时候，你看看我微笑的样子，你也说不定嘴角不自觉的上扬。
　　Helen said: ＂Then let me smile with you, when you are not happy, you look at the way I smile, you may not consciously mouth up.＂.
　　柯林斯说：我无法用语言表达我对你的感激和自己内心的欢喜，自从你走进我的生命中，我的生命每一分钟都变得如此特别，也是我内心唯一所真爱之人，仿佛如同另一个自己。
　　＂I can＂t tell you how grateful I am for you and how happy I am with you,＂ Collins said. ＂Every minute of my life has become so special since you came into it. You are the only one I truly love.
　　海伦说：你知道吗，你对我最大感激就是你要好好爱自己，照顾好自己，不要觉得在这个世界上你是孤独的，你内心从此要有希望和爱相伴，相信我是你远方的亲人，我希望你你生命是幸福圆满的，只要你觉得开心，我内心便是欢喜，因为你与我而言，也是如此的重要。
　　Helen said: Do you know what, your greatest gratitude to me is that you have to love yourself, take care of yourself, don’t feel that you are lonely in this world, you must have hope and love in your heart from now on, believe that I am from afar Relatives, I hope you and your life will be happy and complete. As long as you feel happy, my heart is joy, because it is so important to you and me.
　　柯林斯说：如果没有一个这样小妹妹，你就不会从内心体会到爱一个人的感觉，同时会从内心恨她，不管怎么样，只要记住我爱你！
　　Collins said: ＂Without such a little sister, you will not know from the heart to love a person＂s feeling, but also from the heart to hate her, no matter what, just remember that I love you!＂!
　　海伦说：其实真正纯洁的爱只有付出，是不会产生恨，只有当你想要去占有对方的时候，会有求而不得，会希望对方按照你期待的方式对你的时候，一个人内心才会产生恨，其实最原始的爱是一种浅层的欲望本能，欲望得不到满足，自然内心会生恨，当你内心深处的爱是单纯美好，不是索取或者通过爱建立一种关系，达到某种目的的时候，爱才是真正意义上的爱，不会有痛苦，爱只会让给予和被爱的双方的生命走向更为幸福的状态，爱只会让彼此的心智变得更为成熟，灵魂更加契合而已，如果爱情有很多怨恨，那一定是对爱的解释有所误解！
　　Helen said: In fact, the true pure love only has to pay, it does not produce hate. Only when you want to possess the other party, you will not ask for it. When you want the other party to treat you in the way you expect, a person’s heart Hate will arise. In fact, the most primitive love is a superficial desire instinct. If desires are not satisfied, hatred will naturally arise in your heart. When the love deep in your heart is pure and beautiful, it is not obtained or established through love. Relationship, when a certain purpose is achieved,Love is love in the true sense. There is no pain. Love will only make the lives of both the giving and the loved happier. Love will only make each other’s minds more mature and their souls more compatible. , If love has a lot of resentment, it must be a misunderstanding of the interpretation of love!
　　柯林斯说：我希望我可以很快来中国，你可以带我去四处看看，我认识你以后，我内心很想来中国工作，我很想拥抱你，感谢你对我所有的支持和鼓励。
　　Collins said: I hope I can come to China soon. You can take me to look around. After I know you, I really want to work in China. I really want to hug you. Thank you for all your support and encouragement.
　　海伦说：我生活在大山里，你来我们这里你会很不适应，这里环境很艰苦，也没有工作机会，因为我们是在山里种地的，生活对你会很不适应，你从韩国到我们这里，这无疑是要花很多时间和金钱，我其实于你而言，我什么都没做，只是力所能及认真的听你和我说什么，然后很开心跟你分享我听到的感受，你可以有你自己独立的生活。
　　Helen said: I live in the mountains, you come to us here you will not adapt, the environment here is very difficult, there is no job opportunity, because we are farming in the mountains, life for you will not adapt, you come to us from South Korea, this is undoubtedly to spend a lot of time and money, I actually for you, I did nothing, just try to listen to you and what I say. And then I＂m happy to share with you what I heard. You can have your own independent life.
　　柯林斯说：你是不喜欢见到我对吗，海伦。
　　Collins said, You don＂t like to see me, do you, Helen?
　　海伦说：其实我很想见到你，但是我怕真的委屈你，以后有机会欢迎柯林斯来，如果你喜欢大山区的，如同我从小喜欢大海那样的话！
　　＂In fact,＂ said Helen, ＂I should like to see you, but I am afraid of really wronging you. If you have a chance to welcome Collins, if you like the mountains, as I liked the sea when I was a child!
　　我英文不太好，等我英文在好点，起码沟通不会有问题，还有一点就是我们家房子装修好点了，条件在好一些，你可以来我们家做客，我们在山区的偏远地区，这里比较贫困，跟你以前去过的北京那是完全不同的，你未必会适应这里生活环境，我会为你考虑多一点结合我实际的生活环境！
　　My English is not very good. When my English is better, at least there will be no communication problems. Another point is that our house has been renovated and the conditions are better. You can come to our house as a guest. We are in a remote area in the mountainous area. , This place is relatively poor, and it is completely different from the Beijing you have been to before. You may not adapt to the living environment here. I will consider a little bit more for you to combine with my actual living environment!
　　柯林斯说：我明白你说的，亲爱的海伦，我们是靠缘分认识的，我知道我们如果真的见面我们会擦出爱的火花。
　　Collins said, ＂I know what you mean, dear Helen. We know each other by fate, and I know that if we did meet, we would have a spark of love.＂.
　　海伦说：我刚刚和我婆婆说到你的经历，婆婆看你照片说你是特别善良的人，怎么会经历如此不幸遭遇，婆婆说，我们都不会说英文，这在现实生活中很尴尬，难道聊天要用手机翻译解决吗，想象一下，我觉得不可思议？
　　Helen said: I just talked to my mother-in-law about your experience. My mother-in-law looked at your photo and said that you are a very kind person. How could you have experienced such an unfortunate experience? The mother-in-law said that we all can＂t speak English, which is embarrassing in real life. , Do you want to use mobile phone translation to solve the chat? Imagine, I think it is incredible?
　　我婆婆说，看起来这么英俊的韩国小伙子，应该在韩国找到一个很不错的女孩，根据他自身条件，会有很多适合他的女孩子，从而组建一个幸福的家庭。
　　My mother-in-law said that such a handsome Korean guy should find a very good girl in Korea. According to his own conditions, there will be many girls suitable for him to form a happy family.
　　柯林斯说：如果我拥有你，我不需要其他任何人，你就是我心里那个对的人，厚爱隔山海，山海皆可平，我愿意为你跋山涉水，不远万里，因为这世间只有这样一个海伦，你是不可替代的唯一。
　　Collins said: ＂If I have you, I do not need anyone else, you are the right person in my heart, love across the mountains and seas, mountains and seas can be flat, I would like to travel for you, not far, because there is only such a Helen in the world, you are the only irreplaceable.＂.
　　海伦说：我懂你心之所愿，我特别感谢柯林斯如此厚爱，但是我已经有家庭，这本就是事实，你必须接受这点，我不否认，我内心深处很在乎你，我希望我所在乎的人得到幸福，能够某一天得遇良人相伴，能够走完余生，你心之所想，是我此生无法做到的，因为我对自己的家庭是有责任的和爱的，我们都无法脱离现实而存在于世上生活。
　　Helen said: I understand what you want. I am especially grateful to Collins for being so kind, but I already have a family. This is a fact. You have to accept this. I don’t deny that I care about you deep in my heart. I hope I The person who cares gets happiness, can meet a loved one one day, can walk through the rest of his life, what you think in your heart is something I cannot do in this life, because I am responsible and loving to my family, we They cannot be separated from reality and live in the world.
　　柯林斯说：我尊重你，但是我们依然是最好的朋友，也是最好的关系，只要你觉得好就可以。我永远都会珍惜你，哪怕我们只是最好的朋友，我也很知足。
　　Collins said: I respect you, but we are still the best friends and the best relationship, as long as you feel good. I will always cherish you, even if we are just best friends, I am content。
　　柯林斯说：一个人的内心深处永远知道自己的梦想是什么，亲爱的海伦，我永远都不会放弃你，无论你开心的时候，还是痛苦的时候，我的肩膀永远都会让你依靠。
　　Collins said: A person always knows what his dream is in his heart, dear Helen, I will never give up on you, no matter when you are happy or when you are in pain, my shoulders will always let you rely on.
　　海伦说：完美的爱情和婚姻相一致在现实里很难，不是每个人如此幸运的遇到这样一个人，婚姻无法保证爱情，婚姻只是一种生活方式，意味着你嫁给谁就是选择了一种新的生活方式，也是一种社会契约和组织，更是一种人际关系的和家庭重组。
　　Helen said: It is difficult in reality that perfect love and marriage are consistent. Not everyone is so lucky to meet such a person. Marriage cannot guarantee love. Marriage is just a way of life. It means that whoever you marry is a choice. A new way of life is also a kind of social contract and organization, but also a kind of interpersonal relationship and family reorganization.
　　但是爱情只关乎灵魂本身，只要遇到灵魂契合的人，便可以读懂对方心之所想，从而破译爱的密码，爱情其实很神奇，但是遇到百分百灵魂契合之人是比中彩票还要艰难很多，所以大部分人的婚姻和爱情并非完美的一致，但是不代表这样的婚姻就是不幸，只是存在一点美中不足而已，但是对于一个懂得自爱之人，生活也不是太过艰难，我也是如此，但是我并不觉得这是错误，因为现在的我并不苛求生活完美，生活中存在的遗憾，某种程度上也是一种成全，生命有裂缝，光才会照进来！
　　But love is only about the soul itself. As long as you meet someone with a soul fit, you can understand what the other person thinks and decipher the code of love. Love is actually very magical, but it is better to win the lottery when you meet a person with a 100% soul fit. It’s a lot more difficult, so most people’s marriage and love are not perfectly consistent, but it doesn’t mean that such a marriage is unfortunate, but there are only a few flaws, but for a person who knows self-love, life is not too difficult.
　　The same is true for me, but I don’t think this is wrong, because now I don’t demand perfection in life. The regrets in life are also a kind of perfection to some extent. When there are cracks in life, light will shine in!
　　柯林斯说：亲爱的海伦，我想让你知道，爱是不需要时间的，今天你可以遇到一个人，然后爱上对方，这就是一见钟情，这很容易，但是想要爱情长久下去，必须相互理解，彼此有耐心，相互信任，两个人一起努力才可以。亲爱的，只有你才可以让我留在你生命中，生活没有特别手册和答案，你只需要过最好的生活为心中所爱而努力，为了和你真心想要爱的人在一起， 只有如此，你的内心才是圆满的，相信我，亲爱的海伦。你与我而言，真的很重要，你每次给我的意见都很重要，我知道，我很爱你。
　　＂Dear Helen,＂ Collins said, ＂I want you to know that love doesn＂t take time. You can meet someone today and fall in love. That＂s love at first sight. It＂s easy. But to be in love for a long time, you have to understand each other, be patient, trust each other, and work together.＂. Honey, only you can let me stay in your life. There is no special manual or answer in life. You just need to live the best life and strive for the love in your heart, in order to be with the person you really want to love. Only in this way can your heart be complete. Believe me, dear Helen. You are really important to me. Every time you give me advice, it is very important. I know I love you very much.
　　亲爱的柯林斯，你说的都对，好的情感，不是情绪，是原来内心深处智慧与慈悲；爱的的修行，不是外在，是心里永远为对方着想。
　　Dear Collins, you are all right, good feelings, not emotions, is the original inner wisdom and compassion; The practice of love is not external, but is always thinking of each other.
　　柯林斯说：很晚了，你应该休息了，晚安亲爱的海伦！愿你度过一个美好的夜晚。
　　＂It is late,＂ said Collins. ＂You ought to rest. Good night, dear Helen!＂! I hope you have a good night.
　　海伦说：晚安，亲爱的柯林斯！好梦！
　　＂Good night, dear Collins!＂ Said Helen! Sweet dream!