一个懂得尊重他人的人，也会得到他人的尊重

　　尊重他人，是个人内在修养的外在体现。
　　Respect for others is the external manifestation of personal inner cultivation.
　　懂得尊重的人，才会为他人着想，维护他人的尊严。在他们的言行举止间可以感受到无尽的温暖和关怀。
　　Only those who know how to respect can think for others and safeguard their dignity. They can feel endless warmth and care in their words and deeds.
　　而一个懂得尊重他人的人，必定也会得到他人的尊重。
　　A person who knows how to respect others will certainly be respected by others.
　　卓别林有一个特别好的朋友，非常痴迷于棒球。
　　Chaplin had a very good friend who was very fond of baseball.
　　有次他去朋友家做客，刚好聊到了棒球，朋友瞬间打开了话匣子，滔滔不绝地和卓别林讲述棒球运动。
　　Once he went to a friend＂s house for a visit, and happened to talk about baseball. His friend immediately opened his mouth and talked about baseball with Chaplin.
　　从对方谈起棒球开始，卓别林的话变少了，因为他完全没有接触过棒球，大多数时候都是朋友在讲，他则微笑注视着对方并认真地听着，偶尔说上几句回应朋友。
　　Since the other side talked about baseball, Chaplin＂s words became less, because he had never touched baseball at all. Most of the time, his friends were talking. He smiled at the other side and listened carefully. Occasionally, he said a few words in response to his friends.
　　朋友因为没能得到喜欢的运动员的签名，感到十分遗憾。回去之后，卓别林特意托关系费尽周折，帮朋友拿到了那个棒球运动员的签名。
　　My friend felt very sorry because he could not get the signature of his favorite athlete. After returning, Chaplin took great pains to help his friend get the signature of the baseball player.
　　很多人都不理解。要知道，在那么长的时间里听朋友讲一件自己完全不感兴趣的事情，那种感觉已经很难受了，还要为了朋友的一句话，费了那么大的劲去拿签名。为什么？
　　Many people don＂t understand. You know, it＂s hard to hear a friend talk about something that he is not interested in for such a long time, and you have to work so hard to get your signature for a word from your friend. Why?
　　卓别林告诉身边的人：＂我是对棒球不感兴趣，可我的朋友对棒球感兴趣，只有尊重他人所尊重的事物，别人才能感受到自己被理解被尊重，这是一切友谊的基础。＂
　　Chaplin told people around him: ＂I am not interested in baseball, but my friend is interested in baseball. Only by respecting what others respect, can others feel that they are understood and respected, which is the basis of all friendships.＂
　　有句话说：人最大的魅力不是你的性格魅力，而是你对待别人是否认真。
　　There is a saying that the greatest charm of a person is not your personality charm, but whether you treat others seriously.
　　敷衍对你好的人，就是在不尊重他们的心意。认真对待，对方感受到我们的尊重，友谊才会长久。
　　People who treat you perfunctorily are not respecting their hearts. Take it seriously, the other party will feel our respect, and the friendship will last.