想成为的人

　　倾听者
　　在生活中，做好一个倾听者，我发现如果一个人他说了很长一段话，倾听者要么会有点不耐烦，要么会走神，这样或许会让说话者失去继续说的欲望，所以应该在对方说话时跟上对方的节奏，在有些地方可以对其所说的话表示相应的状态，做一个合格的＂捧哏＂。
　　In life, to be a good listener, I found that if a person says a long time, the listener will either be a little impatient or distracted. This may make the speaker lose the desire to continue speaking, so it should be When the other party speaks, keep up with the other party＂s rhythm, and in some places, he can express the corresponding state of what he said, and be a qualified ＂champion＂.
　　说话者
　　我因为成长的原因，在不熟悉的人面前可以做到一天一句话都不说，必须要说话时，我会在头脑中思考我应该怎样说，但说话时还是很紧张，和想说的不一样，然后就会陷入懊恼中。其实那样是不对的，越不说话就越不会说话，朋友就告诉我不要害怕说话，万事开头难，勇敢迈出第一步。在大众面前讲话时要有条理逻辑，声音放大，可以把观众想象成土豆，虽然这个方法从小就听，但可能用到这个方法的地方比较少，所以重要的是要多多练习。能让听者听下去不光听者认真听，说话者也应该把话说得漂亮，让听者有听下去的欲望。
　　Because of my growth, I can do not say a word a day in front of unfamiliar people. When I have to speak, I will think in my head what I should say, but I am still very nervous when I speak, and I don’t want to say anything. Same, and then you will fall into chagrin. In fact, that’s not right. The more you don’t speak, the less you will be able to speak. My friends told me not to be afraid to speak. Everything is difficult at the beginning, so bravely take the first step. When speaking in front of the public, you must be organized and logical, and your voice can be amplified. You can imagine the audience as potatoes. Although this method has been listened to since childhood, it may be used in relatively few places, so it is important to practice more. It is not only for the listener to listen carefully, but also for the speaker to speak beautifully so that the listener has the desire to listen.
　　读书人
　　腹有诗书气自华，听过一些饱读诗书的人讲话，他们出口成章，给人很舒服的感觉，他们由内而外散发出来的气质很吸引人，这是读书的好处之一。多读书可以调整自己的一些观念，让自己内心丰富，书中的知识可以运用到生活上，解决生活中的问题。
　　They are rich in books, and I have heard the speeches of some people who have read poetry and books. They speak in chapters, giving people a very comfortable feeling. Their temperament exuding from the inside out is very attractive, which is one of the benefits of reading. Reading more can adjust some of your own ideas and enrich your heart. The knowledge in the book can be applied to life and solve problems in life.
　　乐观的悲观主义者
　　这里悲观主义者的意思是对未来的事情始终保持着是变化的态度，认为未来是充满挑战，乐观是指对未来的事情积极，乐观地去做。未来是变化的，需用一个乐观的心态去对待。
　　以上均为小编的观点。
　　The pessimist here means to always maintain a changing attitude towards the future, and that the future is full of challenges. Optimism means to be positive and optimistic about the future. The future is changing, and it needs to be treated with an optimistic attitude.
　　The above are the views of the editor.
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