花腰彝族风俗2

　　腰彝的＂不落夫家＂婚俗。＂花腰彝有一 个世代 风俗：男女成婚后新娘不能与新郎同房，最少要等三年，新娘才能住进新郎的家，此风俗称之为‘归家’＂。接着，一场别开生面的花腰彝婚礼展现在眼前，婚礼的主持者用彝语唱道：＂择个良辰日/结成龙凤配/要守彝家道/三年不得归/待到归家后/出入成双对/直至白头老/凤舞随龙飞。＂
　　大嫂和小七妹对＂归家＂的认识，大嫂对凤美说：＂没归家的时候，我成天可快活了。舞龙一舞一个通宵，都不知道累。＂言下之意是女子归家后就不能舞龙了，整天被家务事缠着，我们可看到大嫂那忙碌的身影，为公婆烧洗脚水，磨豆子，做饭，可以说没有了做姑娘时的快乐。小七妹三年到了没有归家，通过阿玉的口，我们得知小七妹不归家的原因是＂怕归了家就不自由了，也不能舞龙了＂。
　　正是由于她们两人的影响，当阿龙要和凤美同房时，凤美做出了强烈的反抗，大叫＂我不要归家，我还要比赛，我要舞龙＂。这就说明女子在不落夫家期间是自由的，可以参加各种社交活动，比如舞龙。一旦归家则失去了自由，更不用说舞龙了。影片中最后一幕是凤美、小七妹背着孩子在田间劳作，她们虽然在舞龙大赛上获得金奖，但最后仍然归家了。可见，习俗对人的控制性是多么强！
　　Yao Yi＂s marriage custom of ＂not leaving the husband＂s family＂. At the beginning of the film, ＂Huayao Yi has a generational custom: After men and women get married, the bride can＂t live with the groom. It takes at least three years for the bride to live in the groom＂s house. This custom is commonly known as＂ returning home ＂.＂. Then, a new flower waist Yi wedding was displayed. The host of the wedding sang in Yi language: ＂choose a good day / form a dragon and Phoenix match / keep the Yi family road / don＂t return for three years / stay at home / go in and out in pairs / until the white headed old man / the Phoenix dances with the dragon.＂
　　law said to Fengmei, ＂when I didn＂t return home, I can be happy all day. I don＂t know if I＂m tired after dancing the dragon all night. ＂ The implication is that women can＂t dance dragons after they return home. They are haunted by houlaw, burning foot washing water, grinding beans and cooking for her in-law. It can be said that there is no happiness when she is a girl. After three years, little seven sister didn＂t return home.
　　Through ah Yu＂s mouth, we learned that the reason why little seven sister didn＂t return home was ＂afraid that she won＂t be free and can＂t dance the dragon＂. It was because of their influence that when a long wanted to have a room with Fengmei, Fengmei made a strong resistance and shouted, ＂I don＂t want to go home, I want to compete, I want to dance dragons＂. This shows that women are free when they don＂t leave their husband＂s house and can participate in various social activities, such as dragon dance. Once you return home, you lose your freedom, let alone dragon dance. In the last scene of the film, Fengmei and xiaoqimei work in the field with their children on their backs. Although they won the gold medal in the dragon dance competition, they still returned home in the end. It can be seen that custom has a strong control over people!
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