被女朋友妈嫌穷!台男分手3个月到越南娶妻回来,现在超幸福
被女友爸妈嫌穷! 台男分手3个月「到越南娶妻回来」,每天陪摆摊「赚钱都归他」:现在超幸福By girlfriend parents disrelish poor! Taiwan man breaks up for 3 months, "Goes to Vietnam to get his wife back", "Earns money all belongs to him": now super happy
这名男网友在脸书社团「爆怨公社」上分享,表示自己和女友交往5年,感情一直都很稳定,原本预计再工作2、3年,存了点钱后就打算和女友求婚,但怎料女友的爸妈一直认为他的工作很不稳定,且也没有买房,认为自己的女儿可以遇到条件更好的对象,虽然他曾向女友说过「我愿意给你全部」,但仍不敌社会有多现实,久而久之,女友的心也跟着被动摇....
The man said he had been dating his girlfriend for five years and had been in a stable relationship. He had expected to work for another two or three years, save some money and then propose to his girlfriend, but his parents always thought his job was unstable and he didn’t buy a house. They thought their daughter could meet someone better, even though he said to his girlfriend, "I’ll give you everything.". But still less than the reality of society, over time, Girlfriend’s heart is also shaken...
而在分手后,他一直在想「人生还有多少个五年可以浪费」,于是在3个月后,他决定直接到越南相亲,把工作和条件全都公开透明化,他也不用再自卑自己的工作,害怕别人嫌弃他,而当越南的待嫁女子能接受他的条件,且同时他也对对方有好感,就可以直接完婚来台。
After the breakup, he kept thinking, "How many more five years of my life can I waste?"So three months later, he decided to go straight to Vietnam for a blind date. He made his work and conditions public and transparent, and he no longer felt inferior about his work, he is afraid of being rejected by others, and when the Vietnamese bride-to-be can accept his terms, and he also has a good feeling for the other side, he can directly get married to Taiwan.
现在他靠着认真经营感情、真心对待她,终于克服了语言与生活上的隔阂,他接着透露,自从老婆出去工作后,薪水都是直接拿给他贴补家用,只有一个月拿3、5千寄回越南,孝敬长辈,就连假日也都陪着他一起出去摆摊赚钱,完全没喊苦,如今两人也生孩子了,婚姻生活过得非常幸福!
Now he has overcome the language and life barriers by working hard on his relationship and treating her with sincerity. He added that since his wife went out to work, his salary has been given to him directly to support his family, only a month to take 3,5,000 sent back to Vietnam, filial piety elders, even holidays also accompany him to go out to set up a stall to make money, not crying hard, now two people also have children, married life is very happy!
原PO在文末表示,其实在决定去越南娶亲前,也听过很多「外籍嫁过来就是要拿身分证」,接着把钱挖光后抛家弃子等等的不好传言,不过原PO认为真心对待可以战胜一切,「其实也不是所谓台女好或不好,只是可能当初彼此还不够相爱吧,相爱到可以战胜一切现实。但现在我很幸福。我知道她也很幸福,也遇到了她理想的另一半,算是皆大欢喜。有时候就是看你是不是在对的时间遇到对的人而已。」而从他的亲身经历,也证明了有许多新住民其实都是真心嫁来台湾的,不能因为过去那些案例,而以偏概全。
Yuan Po said that before he decided to go to Vietnam to get married, he had also heard many bad rumors about foreigners coming here to take their identity cards, then digging up all their money and leaving their families and children behind, but the original PO believes that sincere treatment can overcome all, "In fact, it is not the so-called Taiwan female good or bad, but may have been not enough love each other, love can overcome all reality.". But now I’m happy. I know that she’s happy, too, and that she’s met her perfect match, and it’s all good. Sometimes it’s just a matter of meeting the right person at the right time. "his personal experience also proves that many of the new residents actually married to Taiwan in good faith and should not be prejudiced by past cases.
不管是外籍还是台湾,只要用心经营,婚姻都会很幸福!
Whether it is foreign or Taiwan, as long as the heart of business, marriage will be very happy!