戴建业先生

　　前段时间忽然在b站上面刷到戴建业先生解读《将进酒》的视频，觉得这个老师好有趣。好巧不巧，两单天之后我在小红书上再次刷到了戴建业先生的视频，于是果断关注，并看了多个视频。戴建业先生非常幽默，他讲的话一般你听一遍便能记住，又或者你看一遍，也能记住个百分之八九十，令我印象非常深刻的是他讲他结婚的时候他老婆给他说以后家中大事他做主，家中小事全归他管，他当时高兴坏了，心想这么大的权利都是他的，当他觉得发生的事情是大事他想要提出意见的时候，他老婆就说，这么一点小事你个大男人都要管，紧接着他就说自从他结婚以来家里就没有发生过大事，我当时听见这番话笑得肚子疼，戴建业先生太幽默了，网友们都说他像一个段子手，但在幽默的外衣下，传达的却是中国文化或者情思。通过这个话我会预想到戴建业先生与他老婆相处的日常，想见婚姻的平淡与美好。
　　后来就去看了戴建业先生的书籍《我的个天》，第一章是他写的对自己的自画像，他写到他童年的灰暗，父亲望子成龙心切，严格要求他的学习，尤其是让他练字，经常打他，他幽默的写到，他觉得摇着尾巴的狗狗好快乐，如果让他在练字与吃屎之间选择，他愿意吃屎，戴建业先生的童年非常孤独，也造成了他性格上的孤僻。中学时他父亲不再那么严格要求他的学业，他反而愿意学习起来，恰好遇到一个好老师送他数学书籍，便培养了他浓厚的数学兴趣，后来嘛，又因为机缘巧合选择了学文，他想要做一个诗人，大学专业将错就错，有谁能想到他大学时候也曾非常失落想要退学并患上了神经衰弱呢？但好在他调整了过来，他即使晚上睡不着早上也按时起床，进行学习。看戴建业先生在自画像里描绘的自己学习时的经历，真的很热血，会觉得戴建业先生是一个非常自律且上进的人，他自己也写到，他保留着一本书并对自己说，＂戴建业曾是一个上进青年＂，十分幽默。
　　尽管我现在已经大学，对诗词等方面不再有研究，但是戴建业先生的豁达、自律等真的吸引着我，希望我也可以如他一般，热爱生活，自律，豁达。
　　Some time ago, I suddenly swiped the video of Mr. Dai Jianye＂s interpretation of ＂Going into Wine＂ on station b. I thought this teacher was very interesting. Coincidentally, two days later, I saw Mr. Dai Jianye＂s video on Xiaohongshu again, so I followed it decisively and watched multiple videos. Mr. Dai Jianye is very humorous. Generally, you can remember what he said once you listen to it, or you can remember 80% or 90% of it when you read it again. What impresses me is that he said that his wife was when he got married. Tell him that in the future, he will be in charge of major family matters, and that all minor matters in the family will be in his charge. He was so happy at the time and thought that such a big right belonged to him. When he felt that what happened was a major event, he wanted to make an opinion. My wife said, you have to take care of such little things as a big man. Then he said that there has been no major incident in the family since he got married. I heard this and made my stomach hurt when I laughed. Mr. Dai Jianye is too humorous, netizens. It is said that he is like a jokeman, but under the cloak of humor, what he conveys is Chinese culture or sentiment. Through these words, I would expect Mr. Dai Jianye＂s daily life with his wife, and would like to see the dull and beautiful marriage.
　　Later, I went to read Mr. Dai Jianye’s book ＂My God＂. The first chapter is his self-portrait of himself. He wrote about his gloomy childhood and his father was eager to look forward to his son. He strictly required his study, especially for him. He practiced calligraphy and beat him often. He wrote humorously that he felt happy that a dog wagging his tail. If he was allowed to choose between calligraphy and eating shit, he would be willing to eat shit. Mr. Dai Jianye had a very lonely childhood. Caused his withdrawn character. In middle school, his father no longer demanded his studies so strictly. Instead, he was willing to learn. He happened to meet a good teacher who gave him math books, which cultivated his strong interest in mathematics. Later, he chose to learn literature because of a coincidence. He wanted to be a poet, and his college major would be wrong. Who would have thought that he was very disappointed in college and wanted to drop out and suffered from neurasthenia? Fortunately, he adjusted. Even if he couldn＂t fall asleep at night, he would get up on time in the morning to study. Looking at Mr. Dai Jianye’s self-portrait of his own learning experience, I’m really passionate, and I feel that Mr. Dai Jianye is a very self-disciplined and motivated person. He himself wrote that he kept a book and said to himself, ＂ Dai Jianye used to be a motivated young man＂, very humorous.
　　Although I am now in college and no longer have any research on poetry, etc., Mr. Dai Jianye＂s open-mindedness and self-discipline really attracted me. I hope I can be like him, love life, self-discipline, and open-mindedness.
　　——源自Google翻译
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　　参考资料：Google翻译、《我的个天》
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